Shaun Connell
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Consumerism is the Ultimate Emotional Scam... It Never Delivers

Consumerism is the ultimate scam: it never delivers on the implied promise of emotional fulfillment. It's an extremely contagious, nearly incurable cultural disease - the more you expect, the more you try to achieve that expectation, then the higher your consumption standards become. Achieving your consumption goals feel like a failure.

It's the philosophy of moving targets, trading real life for a never-ending, moving target that cannot be achieved, quenched, or fulfilled - by nature.

Consumerism isn't wanting a new phone - it's always wanting a newer phone.

Falling for consumerism begins innocently: wanting to keep up with one's social peers. Eventually, you'll find yourself risking the lives of real families so you can text-and-drive to save 5 seconds, pissed off at the high-school kid because you have mustard instead of ketchup on your sandwich, giving up spending time loving your wife because you feel she wants a bigger house more than your precious time.

This is one reason, among many, that I choose to be part of the stealthy wealthy, which is a movement of people who don't just blow their money on consumerism once they earn it.

How Consumerism Eats Away at Our Souls

Almost everyone rejects consumerism in theory, but in application, it's killing us socially, financially, culturally, and emotionally.

Consumerism is the orphan maker, leading to generations of children growing up with new toys but absent, distracted parents.

Consumerism is the financial annihilator, leading to financial decisions being based on spending money rather than achieving personal, family, and social goals.

Consumerism is the great culture killer, obliterating authentic cultural identity with a mindless, vague existence based on what one consumes rather than who one is.

Consumerism, Anxiety, Guilt, Depression

Consumerism is the emotional executioner, directly and completely robbing people of any sense of being able to enjoy "now." We trade fulfillment for the gnawing desire for more petty consumption as a lifestyle.

Being emotionally tied to unachievable goals leads to perpetual feelings of anxiety, gnawing-but-vague regret, and an uncanny feeling that one is wasting one's life. Consumerism isn't just unhealthy - it's evil.

I've never seen a consumption-obsessed person finally hit the lifestyle that allows them to relax. Because it's not about any material, set goal. It's about the cultural obsession with more, the perpetually moving target itself.

If anything, the more one 'wins' at consumerism, the more devastating the consequences. There aren't enough fancy new coffee shops in the world to make up for a thirsty soul that can't be quenched. And no, this isn't a swipe against fancy coffee shops.

What Consumerism Is Not

Don't confuse consumerism with markets or capitalism. Capital is important, and markets are vital, but consumerism is a different animal. Consumerism is the idea that you behave only for a transactional gain - that life is a series of accounting decisions.

If you focus on consumption, then business success won't help you - it'll destroy you. It'll lock you into a new lifestyle like a slave shackled to a luxury galley ship. That lifestyle isn't success - it's your comfy hell on earth.

I think people know something is wrong. The Internet is speeding up our strengths and weaknesses - which includes consumerism going off the rails in new life-ruining speed.

The Alternatives to the Disease

There are plenty of competing potential alternatives to consumption as a religion. I won't go into much detail here, but the simplest I've found could be seen as character-based producerism: I only consume what I need and what I symbolically appreciate because of its reflection of my values.

If I have a nice cigar in my smoking room, it's not because I always need a new, better cigar. It's because I am rewarding myself to make a symbolic statement about my own production in other areas. It's about who I am as a person. That means even if the cigar ends up being too dry or poorly constructed, it won't be upsetting - the symbolism will work.

When I bought my Cadillac CTS-V, it wasn't because I always need the latest and greatest new car. It was because I knew what it stood for: hard work, innovation, and finally achieving a set financial goal. A few months ago, it was accidentally scratched - it didn't bother me because the car wasn't the goal. Being a good man was. The distinction is one most will always miss.

Perspective - focusing on who one is and what things mean - is the simplest antidote for consumerism of which I'm aware.

You don't have to be just like everyone else. You can be more productive, more stealthy about your income, and more balanced. To learn more, check out my about page and my essays page.

It's tempting to see a major drop in the stock market and believe that you have enough information to make a fast profit.

Right before I started writing this article, the stock market dropped well over 4%, leading to social media exploding with small-time investors saying things like, "Buy the dip!"

It sounds like sound advice. If anything, it almost sounds obvious.

After all, if you buy when stocks dip, that should, if you're guesstimating things correctly, mean that you're getting stocks just like normal over time - but at a slightly better deal.

This makes you more money, right? If stocks were a good investment yesterday, and today they're 4% cheaper, then you're just grabbing a 4% better deal, right?

Not quite.

In fact, this tempting approach is statistically more likely to cost you than earn extra. In fact, since investors started saying "buy the dip", stocks are down another 4% - and we could be on the verge of a substantial correction.

Fundamentally, "buy the dip" is a bad strategy based on an economic illusion.

As they say, "If it's too good to be true..."

The hidden assumptions of "buy the dip"

"Buy the dip" has a lot of built-in assumptions that you can't statistically assume over time without getting seriously burned.

Let's break them down:

  • Market type assumption. You're assuming this is a dip and not the start of a bear market or at least a major correction. Miss the boat and you'll get slaughtered - rather than get a few extra percentage points to your total return. The potential risks here are bigger than the modest potential payoff.
  • Peak dip assumption. You're assuming that buying the dip now is better than buying the dip later. If the dip is still dipping, you might time it incorrectly. This is the irony of the entire cliché.
  • Rejecting previous prices assumption. You're assuming that buying the dip now is better than buying into the market earlier with that same available money. This one is harder to see. Think of it this way: would you rather buy at a slight dip from 26,000 or would you rather buy at 20,000 and reinvest along the way? You're assuming that this is the right time to buy stocks with your available capital - and not some earlier time. I'll explain this assumption more in depth below.

The ideas discussed immediately above are the basic assumptions of the "buy the dip" strategy. They might seem innocent but they can literally wipe out decades of savings because of several extremely important economic principles.

Let's look at the main principle that shatters these bad assumptions: the efficient market hypothesis.

WARNING: Ignoring boring concepts will put you at a disadvantage

Even if you find this to be mind-numbingly boring (most people would agree that it is), if you have any desire to save for retirement or find almost any level of financial independence, it's an idea you need to understand as much as possible.

This is the kind of financial and economic concept that every high-school student and college student should be deeply familiar with before they graduate. As I've written before, teaching financial concepts like this would change society completely. Unfortunately, the ideas are largely ignored.

Think of articles like this as the broccoli of self-help content. They're not fun to consume but you'll be better off if you do.

So grab a cup of coffee or tea, read the article, and feel free to contact me to discuss it further - or browse around the Internet to read some more. It's important and about way more than just "buy the dip" analysis.

Extremely important concept: "Efficient market hypothesis"

Let's back up a bit.

To understand why you can't beat the market with tactics like the ones discussed above, we need to understand a concept called the "efficient market hypothesis (EMH)."

Effectively, the efficient market hypothesis (EMH) is the idea that asset prices fully "account" for all "known" information.

Without getting lost in the weeds, the hypothesis claims that, roughly, the market is already accounting for everything we know about the market.

In other words, if you think a downturn is coming, the market is already priced for what it believes is the likelihood of one - so gambling on a future bear market will probably not make money, because the market has already accounted for that prediction as well.

There's a reason Google is priced higher than a failing grocery store chain. The market is already pricing in the gamble that Google has better long-term growth likelihood than the failing grocery chain, to put it simply.

This notion of the market already pricing predictions is confusing to people.

Most tend to think that investing is about picking winners more often than picking losers. This isn't remotely true.

In fact, this isn't true any more than the idea that sports gambling is about just picking winners - if you pick winners of football matches 75% of the time, you will probably still lose money because a bunch of other gamblers made those same predictions - meaning the odds aren't always going to be 50-50. If anything, after fees, you're effectively going to almost always lose money gambling over time.

The same thing goes for stocks. You think Coca-Cola is a good bet? So do billions and billions of investor dollars. You think Google is a good bet? So do billions and billions of investor dollars.

Market prices reflect market predictions, effectively. So whenever you are gambling on the basis of a prediction you are making, so are all of the other people buying, selling, holding - or considering those things - that asset.

It's not enough to get a prediction right. There's a lot more going on. That simplistic "good prediction" understanding of investing is tempting and destructive.

The more available information becomes, the more efficient markets become

No one person or organization decides what something is priced in the market. The stock market, in particular, is just a large collection of people buying and selling identical assets to other investors via bidding.

This means that prices simply reflect whatever supply and demand for the priced asset reflect at the time - if people suddenly stop selling, prices might go up - assuming there's the same number of people trying to buy with the same intensity as before.

This means that prices go up and down for individual assets on the basis of the investors trying to buy, hold, or sell the assets. So the prices reflect the desires being acted upon by the investors - market prices respond to what all of the investors think they are worth.

This understanding that markets reflect the beliefs of huge number of investors is important. Markets don't reflect random people or the average investor - they reflect the applied beliefs of investors with the most money being gambled on the asset, as well. The more exposure to the asset one has, the more one's acted-upon beliefs impact its price.

Market prices reflect what investors know about the market. Information being released impacts prices. Prices reflect known information - not just information, but known information. Or, more technically (and philosophically accurate, for lack of better word), prices reflect believed information.

This makes markets brutal, powerful, and very fast responders to events, analysis, and the learned experience of the most powerful investors. In other words, markets are elaborate social pricing machines based on known information about the assets in question.

Put simply, prices are the market's reflection of the known information about the asset at that particular time. This is important. If anything, understanding this is key to understanding everything else discussed on this page.

As information continues to spread faster and faster with innovations like the Internet, being able to have an "information edge" becomes increasingly difficult to the point of being impossible.

It would have been easier to outperform the stock market in 1940 than it is in 2018. Information simply spreads too fast and is too widely available to beat everyone else. Having an information advantage is difficult when insider trading is illegal and Indonesian street vendors have more information than the Library of Alexandria in their pocket computers.

Even Benjamin Graham, the father of value investing, (which Warren Buffet based his life work on), eventually came to concede to the efficiency of public markets. He wrote in 1976, literally 42 years ago and well before the Internet made things worse:

“I am no longer an advocate of elaborate techniques of security analysis in order to find superior value opportunities. This was a rewarding activity, say, 40 years ago, when our textbook "Graham and Dodd" was first published; but the situation has changed a great deal since then. In the old days any well-trained security analyst could do a good professional job of selecting undervalued issues through detailed studies; but in the light of the enormous amount of research now being carried on, I doubt whether in most cases such extensive efforts will generate sufficiently superior selections to justify their cost. To that very limited extent I'm on the side of the "efficient market" school of thought now generally accepted by the professors.”

If Graham thought it was tough then, he would have been a vigorous supporter of the efficient market hypothesis now. As everyone should be.

The market is a massive pricing calculator involving almost all human wisdom

Understanding markets as nothing more than an incredibly massive, incredibly comprehensive series of pricing mechanisms is the first step towards financial humility.

People who misunderstand the EMH almost always misunderstand the first step: the market is just a big pricing machine accounting for nearly all known information. So unless you have some massive, massive information advantage (like insider trading, or some kind of elaborate expertise in a particular industry mixed with the ability to understand utterly in-depth financial valuations), you won't outperform the market. Period.

So you won't do better if you buy the dip than if you don't. You won't do better if you refuse to invest during a dip. You won't do better no matter what you do - not risk-adjusted.

This doesn't mean you're helpless. Make sure to read the end of this article if you'd like to skip to the more optimistic interpretation of these concepts.

You and I aren't nearly as smart as we'd like to be. Our comically tiny ability to comprehend the Universe pales in comparison to countless investors using countless unique angles coming together in the total capital markets - with almost everyone looking for the slightest advantage.

Why this mumbo-jumbo market pricing stuff matters

You can't beat the stock market, risk-adjusted.

Even if you predict all kinds of things correctly, that's not the point - you'll eventually get a couple wrong and those will ruin your numbers - putting you back where you started, or worse. If you do get lucky, you didn't get lucky on a risk-adjusted level - meaning, well, you were lucky, not better informed than the market at large.

And getting lucky isn't the same thing as having a superior strategy.

Studies repeatedly confirm this EMH framework. So do surveys. So does, well, almost all known evidence. And, it's even getting worse.

This bleak conclusion makes sense - after all, the market is nothing more than a pricing machine, so the more efficient (ie, the more informed the market is - which during the Information Age is going to be pretty damned informed) the market, the less likely you are to beat it.

For anyone keeping score on how well information spreads these days, you have effectively no chance of beating the market, risk-adjusted. Period. Sorry. End of story.

Directly tying this into 'buy the dip' theory

'Buy the dip' sounds good, but like I wrote earlier, it's based on some assumptions that don't make risk-adjusted sense. The biggest one is that you're assuming the dip isn't the beginning of a crash. Imagine if instead of "buy the dip" we said, "buy the stocks right before the bear market wipes you out for about 10 years." Doesn't sounds as clever, does it?

Of course, almost never will the dip end up a bear market. Nine times out of ten, you'll avoid that. But it's that one out of ten that wipes out your statistical advantage. That's the part that confuses people. You're not trying to usually beat the market - you're trying to beat the market on a risk-adjusted level - which is economically impossible.

The same concept applies to the other assumption: the notion that if you can "buy the dip" then you're buying it with resources that supposedly you had access to beforehand, otherwise you would just say "buy" and not "buy the dip." The reference to taking advantage of a specific opportunity in the market and not just buying consistently suggests you've been sitting on the money.

If you sit on money you want to invest in public markets at some point because you want to outperform it, you're missing the economic point - you're never going to perform better sitting on the sides. Think about how many people thought the market was "too" expensive a couple of years ago - they've lost an incredible amount of wealth because of that view.

What this does NOT mean

I spent a lot of time writing about these concepts, but i want to make sure what I'm saying isn't misunderstood as another set of arguments. Here's a quick clarification. I'm not saying anything bolded in the section below:

  • Nobody can beat the market. I'm not saying that it's impossible to beat the market, necessarily. You can beat the market - if you have what's called an "informational advantage." Since the markets reflect known information - information that is known by the market - the way to beat it is to have information the market doesn't have. That's why insider trading is illegal - and it's how congressmen often get rich with all of their special knowledge they can abuse.
  • Private markets are the same. Private markets are utterly different. It's very difficult but still very possible to make more money running a business than the average business earns. This is about publicly traded systems with extremely high levels of knowledge. Private markets are extremely different beasts altogether.
  • The market is "perfectly" efficient. I'm not saying the market is perfectly efficient. Reflexivity, the idea that explains why people often overreact to known information, shows us that markets aren't perfectly efficient. But they're pretty damn close - especially when you account for trading fees and the lost opportunity cost of the time spent investing. My view is what's called the "weak" efficient market hypothesis - it's not perfect, but it's pretty close.
  • EMH is essentially financial populism. A lot of investors love to pretend it's contrarian and anti-mob to reject EMH. They seem to think that EMH is a belief in crowds. That's not quite fair. It's a belief that markets are better information digests and pricing machines than any one person or organization - that's for sure.

Avoiding mistakes is 99% of investing. But enough about the bad news. Let's look at some interesting applications of these ideas that will make you money.

You can't outperform the market, but you CAN outperform the experts

Now here's the cool part. You can invest better than almost every financial genius on earth in a couple of surprisingly simple steps.

You can invest better than the billionaires, the stock-market gurus, the bankers, the college endowment investment managers, the financial planners - you can outperform almost all of them over time.

The way is simple. They're all trying to outperform the market. This, on average, causes nearly every last blasted one of them to dramatically underperform the market for the reasons explained above.

So if you just hook up your portfolio to track the market as cheaply and as consistently as possible, you'll outperform the experts - by default.

All you have to do:

  • Minimize your fees with funds like Vanguard.
  • Get as much broad market exposure as possible with funds like Vanguard.
  • Invest your capital as soon as its available without any attempt to time the market.
  • Rebalance regularly, like every quarter.

Do this and you'll outperform almost every mutual fund on earth over time. You'll outperform almost every equity hedge fund. You'll outperform almost every individual investor.

And you'll do it because of your humility.

Vanguard is an organization that exists so that any 'profits' get passed back to the funds themselves, meaning they are as low fee as is legally and economically possible - in general. Their index funds just try to not beat the market - they're based on the assumption that the market is essentially always priced the best possible way based on all known info.

And it works. Vanguard slaughters the competition easily. It's almost embarrassing for the experts. I'll be writing about this more down the road. Make sure to sign up for my newsletter if you'd like to read more. It's boring, but it's powerful because it's true.

Final thoughts

Don't try to buy the dip. Don't try to make financial gambles on the basis of your market predictions. Build a simple portfolio like the one described above. Don't fight the market - let it carry you itself.

Buy the market regularly regardless of the news. Sometimes, you'll buy while the market is rising. Sometimes, you'll buy while the market is falling. Sometimes, you'll buy while the market is flat. Regardless, over time, your portfolio will get better, and your returns stronger.

Most importantly, perhaps: use economic literacy to avoid big mistakes that you'll regret for the rest of your life.

If you're looking for a legitimate excuse on which to blame everything going wrong in your life, I've got some great news: there's definitely a legitimate excuse for your situation.

In fact, I've never met a person yet who didn't have at least a few major external reasons they weren't wherever they wanted to be with their finances, health, fitness, and/or relationships.

I'm serious. Almost everyone I know has perpetual, legitimate excuses on hand useful for rationalizing every missed goal, every dropped ball, and every small flaw in their life. Excuses on tap.

Almost everyone has major areas outside of their control which consumes their time, energy, and mental bandwidth on such a level that using those areas as excuses would be honest, understandable, and even respectable. Let's review a few common ones.

Here are some excuses which apply to you

Here are some extremely common excuses that you might have access to right now:

  • Gender. This is easy and definitely realistic. If you're a woman, you have a massive minefield you have to navigate that men don't ever have to even think about: being ignored for promotions, getting paid less, people not taking you seriously, people expecting you to not be focused on long-term projects - sexism is real.
  • Children. Children are colossal up-front costs. They demand incredible amounts of time, incredible amounts of energy, incredible amounts of mental bandwidth, and - perhaps most importantly - incredible amounts of rigidity for your schedule. You can't just ignore them for a few days. Your children need you.
  • Spouse. Spouses are very understandably, demanding. They love you - they're your other half. They need you financially, emotionally, and definitely in terms of time. I have literally never met a married person whose biggest struggle when working on a project wasn't their spouse.
  • Horrible bosses. Realistically, your boss is probably an idiot. He probably doesn't understand your worth, is wrong about the market, is wrong about her/his own business, etc. Bosses are rarely empowering. Usually, they squander assets like you. It's true.
  • Lack of money. Don't have money? Then you can't pay for things that are needed to get to where you want to go. Nothing insulting about this - it's just true. If you can't afford to fix your car, then you just can't afford it. Period. Right?
  • Mental health. This is a massive new one. Especially if you're a millennial. You probably have mental health issues. You probably have ADHD. No way around it. There are demonstrable ways these mental health issues are hurting you when it comes to doing what you need to do. You probably don't even know how bad it is - it's probably worse than you realize.
  • Bad schooling. If you went to a horrible school, that will stick with you for the rest of your life. Starting your life on the wrong foot can mess everything up. Bad math teachers in high school? That hurts you as an adult because it's not as easy to learn when you're older. It's just a fact.
  • Poor family. Most won't understand what it's like growing up poor. There are so many disadvantages that live with you, it's impossible to list them all. Educational, networking options, health options, the ability to see the world - poverty puts you at a permanent disadvantage. Even as an adult, the disadvantages will pop up repeatedly.
  • Lack of parents. Didn't have a strong father figure in your life? That'll leave a mark. Bring up that baggage down the road and everyone you know will be understanding as you explain how that stopped you from achieving certain goals. They'll be right, too. It's huge.
  • Bad parenting. Were you slapped around? Emotionally abused? Emotional abuse can be the worst. It can cause hell in your future relationships, business endeavors, and in almost every other area of life. It's legitimate, too. Your childhood is extremely important to your chances of "making it" in the world.
  • College debt. Massive student loans? They can ruin your life. They can make you less date-able, can force you to live somewhere you don't want to live and require you to become more dependent on low-end jobs than you'd like. Debt is slavery, after all.
  • Lack of privilege. This is a great one. Just Google "list of privileges" to get a list of endless excuses. Unless you're a straight, white, rich, well-educated, perfectly mentally healthy, Christian male, you'll find all kinds of good excuses after a few minutes of browsing. Check out Tumblr, it's a goldmine.

These are just the major excuses. Smaller ones are even more plentiful and just as legitimate.

Late for something? There was someone in front of you going too slowly. Miss a morning deadline? Your computer was giving you problems for a full 20 minutes. Ignoring the emotional needs of your significant other? They were rude earlier, and it's drastically easier to just give them the silent treatment like you were raised. Going into debt every month? Eating out a few times a week is not unreasonable.

Application: You have major things going wrong outside of your control

If you have a somewhat normal life, then you're probably going to have a couple of mental health issues, a couple of kids, an emotionally needy spouse, and a lack of money. These are major excuses that, if you use them, nobody will blame you for the problems they will cause. If anything, your friends will bring them up to help you rationalize things whenever life goes south.

Heck, if you called me right now and told me your situation, I'd probably even go along with the excuses. They're legit. You have tons of them. Everyone will agree.

This is why the whole social justice movement is growing so quickly with young people. Because they're right about the oppression, kind of. This is true even on the smaller level we're talking about. In almost every negative situation, something else - outside of your direct control - is causing the problem on a major, fundamental level.

In fact, the general narrative behind excuses is all wrong. Most people believe that the default is things going correctly and that when something bad happens, that's the unknown variable that caused things to go south - that's why it's the excuse. Excuses are seen as exceptional events outside of one's control.

The truth is the opposite. In the same way, some people see "privilege" everywhere, the other side of that coin is to see legitimate excuses everywhere. Bad things happen to you constantly for legitimate reasons outside of your control.

That said, the purpose of this article isn't what it might look like right now. In fact, the real lesson is the opposite of how most people take these lessons.

Excuses are when you choose to narratively surrender to an obstacle

Obstacles are inevitable, but excuses aren't.

When something goes poorly and you have the choice to blame the external cause or find some flaw or area of potential improvement with yourself, err on the side of choosing yourself - while also learning about the external source as well.

This puts you in a perpetual position of learning from failure rather than a cycle of repeating failure.

There is no strategic value in excuses - even legitimate excuses. There is a strategic value in understanding your disadvantages. Understanding your disadvantages is good, but an excuse is when you reject understanding the disadvantage in favor of surrendering your personal narrative to the disadvantage.

That distinction is the difference between an obstacle being a problem you overcome or the defining characteristic of your ruined, wasted life.

Think of your daily life like a general who surveys a potential battlefield: only a fool would ignore the terrain, but only a bad general would see the terrain as either good or bad without considering his options for navigating said terrain. You're the general of your life. So act like it.

An excuse is when someone surrenders their entire identity of being a strong, independent, strategic human being in exchange for telling their boss someone was driving slightly slower than normal in front of them. Excuses are pathetic, strategically useless, and are, ironically, a major personal flaw that causes major life harm.

This bears emphasis: excuses - surrendering to legitimate obstacles - is a reflection of your flaw. That means that the wrong mentality takes the understandable blame and shifts it from that external cause and points it right back at you: the foolish general.

It's important to understand the obstacles you face, yes. But that's not the same as surrendering to them and believing that those obstacles are the unmovable, unchangeable catalysts of the inevitable undesired outcome.

Scroll up and look at that list of excuses. Now, look at it as a list of possible disadvantages that one can overcome. Now one's entire outlook on life shifts drastically. You become more powerful when you realize you have the power in the first place.

Important: "Blame yourself first" is not the same as "victim-blaming"

The point of this article isn't to somehow suggest that you should ignore when you are, in fact, being oppressed. The concepts described don't mean you shouldn't care about things like unequal pay, abusive parents, or any other situations where you truly are being victimized. That's not the point at all.

It's also not the point of this article to shame you for not "overcoming" every situation. I wouldn't have been as successful if I'd grown up as a black female in 1930s Alabama. Some things are beyond our control. That's just a fact.

It's not a mental "trick" to suggest people should blame themselves over situations for which they aren't responsible. Sometimes structural, and macro changes are necessary.

"Victim blaming" and "blame yourself first" aren't remotely connected.

In "victim-blaming", you blame the innocent person for the actions of the guilty - and entrench the problem.

In "blame yourself first", you seek to understand the catalysts of the unwanted final result, and then act to minimize the unwanted final result as much as possible - and prevent it from happening again.

That's why it's "blame yourself first" and not "blame yourself only."

If you're only partly to blame, focus on what can be done on your end to change the outcome. But don't ignore the problems caused by external sources - and don't accept blame for what is not within your control.

Of course, if you aren't to blame at all, then don't blame yourself at all. Sometimes, there's nothing we can do and we can't fix a broken situation. These ideas are about empowering you, not enslaving you to unjust blame.

Application: How to "blame yourself first" correctly

Let's look at a real-world example.

If you're the CEO of a company and someone running a department makes a series of horrible decisions that severely damages their department, then you should immediately figure out what you could have done to prevent the problem, what you did to cause the problem - if anything - and what you can do to minimize the current damage.

You begin by asking yourself the following questions:

  • What systems did I set up in the place that created the unwanted outcome?
  • What bad behavior did I enable that created the unwanted outcome?
  • Why didn't I put a stop to the problem before the final unwanted outcome?
  • What could I have done differently to have stopped the unwanted outcome - automatically?
  • What can I do that will fix the unwanted outcome right now while minimizing long-term problems?
  • What can I learn from this situation that I can use in future situations so I can avoid future unwanted outcomes?

That might mean realizing that you made a mistake in hiring for the position. It might mean you didn't put the right processes in place. It might mean you should have communicated better with the department head. It might mean many things.

What it shouldn't mean is that you should just blame the department head and ignore all culpability - direct or indirect. Blame yourself first weaponizes the fact that you can only, in the end, control your own decisions - and that's where the brunt of your analysis should be for fixing problems.

Even when someone else is to blame, "blame yourself first" results in a more comprehensive, total awareness of what occurred and how to minimize the damage.

In business, this really is an effective "hack" for almost every situation.

Lifehack: Blame yourself first, even if there are legitimate reasons to not

An excuse is when someone driving slow made you late for work. An obstacle is when someone drove slow in front of you - but your day was so organized that you still made the deadline because you (almost) always have the ability to arrive a little early through good planning.

In plain English: just because there's an external cause for something negative in your life, that doesn't mean that you don't have options for getting around that cause - even if the solution might seem "extreme" to others.

Just because you're poor doesn't mean you have to stay poor. Just because you're poor doesn't mean you can't compete against wealthier people. Just because you're poor doesn't mean you can't use that experience as a leverage point when dealing with others.

Just because you didn't have a father doesn't mean you have to have the "daddy issues" of someone who didn't have a father - sometimes, those who were fatherless become the best fathers because they trained themselves to use that pain and emotional vacuum as an energy source.

Sometimes, your biggest disadvantages and obstacles can become your biggest advantages and strengths. But you have to blame yourself first in order to rule over your life well. This is the beginning of a good personal strategy.

With a good personal strategy, even our weaknesses become untraditional advantages.

A fundamental part of a high-school education in America should involve understanding personal finance, the true cost of credit, and how delaying consumption for a few years can be the difference between financial hardship and an early retirement.

I don't mean a class or two of textbook information about how credit works. I mean actually teaching the principles of financial discipline.

We need a producer society focused on creating value - not a consumer society focused on taking as much as possible. Think: thrift and productivity as a culture.

Consumerism has become one of the most destructive quasi-religious elements of modern culture. People identify themselves on the basis of what they consume - not what they do or who they are.

That's why the following should be taught as a comprehensive part of high-school - and heck, college - education. Not just a single class, but as a fundamental approach to finance whenever it comes up, referenced throughout curriculum, branding, and materials.

For example, here are some thoughts that could be developed either through in-depth explanations or specific tutorials and hands-on guidance:

  • To build wealth, spend less than you earn.
  • To become wealthy, delay spending and maximize your savings.
  • Compounding returns means the younger you start investing, the better.
  • One of the most expensive things in life is a failed marriage.
  • College loans make sense, but only when mixed with calculated career decisions.
  • Debt rarely makes anyone any money - besides the lender.
  • Credit is when you have the money to pay it off if you want. Debt is when you are relying on future earnings. One is basic finance; the other is slavery.
  • Professionalism and basic work ethic should be applied to every job, even entry level - someone will take notice. If not your boss, then a potential future boss. People are watching.
  • Basic psychology reveals that people tend to normalize what they're used to - that's how consumerism bankrupts people.
  • The principles of financial discipline should be seen as just as important part of a well-rounded education as mathematics and English.

Building a culture of thrift is possible, but it requires focusing on just that - culture. Finance isn't just about math. People have to begin, as early as possible, to understand that not all consumption is "reasonable." We should view consumption with suspicion.

I say this as someone who was a millionaire for years before I bought a new vehicle. I live in a small house that I renovated. My biggest luxury is an occasional $15 cigar. This doesn't mean I don't live well - I live like a king. I just don't mindlessly consume.

The crazy thing is that basic personal finance teaches us to reject consumerism and ironically helps us achieve a much better lifestyle. Rather than spending money on things we don't need, we find freedom - and more money down the road to spend on experiences and a good life.

Good personal finance turns money around so that rather than us being enslaved by the economic system, we're using the economic system to maximize our own options, happiness, and legacy. It's incredibly powerful.

Consumerism is one of the most destructive forces in modern society. It takes potentially free people and enslaves them to empty consumption, constantly increasing their standards for what they believe "normal" people should be able to consume. The end result is an impoverished society... surrounded by material wealth.

Good finance is critical to a good life. That's why so many philosophies - from the book of Proverbs to Stoic thought - emphasize contentment, self-control as something to practice like any other skill, and a lifestyle of discipline.

What better place to develop a strong culture than educational institutions? What use is an educational institution that doesn't educate on the fundamental ideas, concepts, and identities that are key to every other part of society's prosperity?

Imagine every high school student becoming intimately familiar with these concepts. It would transform the world.

The Clipper Ship Strategy: to make money during a gold rush, focus on supplying a secondary demand created by a primary boom. Chances are, it'll have drastically less competition while being just as lucrative.

Cryptocurrencies have a similar situation unfolding. Everyone is trying to get rich buying the 'coins' in order to sell them to someone else later. This is extremely risky, and just as many people will get wiped out as will make money. It's one thing to buy bitcoins if you're worried about a paradigm shift (like I described in my 2013 article on Seeking Alpha). But it's another thing to buy Bitcoins hoping it's your personal gold rush.

Trying to strike gold - or its digital equivalence - is for suckers or extremely skilled speculators. Chances are, you're not one of the latter.

Here's the real way people are making money with cryptos:

  • Sell shovels. If you understand basic marketing, funnel building, and content creation - and you should - you can sell information about cryptos and make dramatically more money with dramatically less risk than buying the coins themselves. There are more millionaires being made explaining how to invest in cryptos than there are directly buying the cryptos themselves. This is a pretty basic example of the Clipper Ship strategy.
  • Use the technology. Do what Ripple is doing. They came up with a business model that uses the paradigm-shifting blockchain technology to do something useful. Now they're valued at something like $80 billion. They want to revolutionize the international money-movement industry, which means countless hundreds of billions - if not more - are at stake.

Either way, whenever you see a gold rush, don't fall for the trap. Don't go for the bait. Don't become a miner. Find a way to build wealth by looking for the second opportunity - it's probably being overlooked by others and there's more room to grow and profit.

Facebook's "trending" news section currently includes a statement by Alibaba founder and CEO Jack Ma. The soundbite is going viral.

Ma suggested, much to the dismay of business leaders around the planet, that fake goods from China are actually better than the real products.

Most are laughing at Ma, but I think he's making a great point and it's part of a multi-trillion dollar disruption going on in manufacturing and physical product marketing.

What Jack Ma Actually Said

Jack Ma was being questioned about all of the endless fake and counterfeit and "knock off" products that are for sale in bulk on Alibaba.com, a website that is essentially an Amazon.com for people looking to buy products to sell through repackaging.

Here's what Ma actually said:

"The problem is that the fake products today, they make better quality, better prices than the real products, the real names. It's not the fake products that destroy them, it's the new business models."

This isn't nearly as bad as it's being made out to be. It's also not wrong, in many cases. Let's do a quick review of some facts most people don't understand.

2 Facts to Keep in Mind

Jack Ma has a front-seat view of some massive economic shifts going on right now. He understands two very important facts:

  • "Knock off" brands are from the same factories.

If you buy a knock off watch, there's a fairly good chance it's made at the same factory as the big name brands - it just doesn't have the same brand.

This is especially true for easy to make products. Private labeling as an industry is changing how people view products.

That's why some companies, like the app Wish, are based on getting cheap private labeled products into the hands of consumers - they can be just a fraction of the cost, but have the same qualities as the name brand.

  • Branding and quality are often an illusion.

The above point touches on something that is difficult to wrap one's mind around at first: branding is largely an illusion.

If a small firm makes a product with identical quality as Apple, most people will think the apple product is higher quality because they believe in the illusion of the brand.

This isn't necessarily a bad thing. It can make decision making simpler and more efficient. But if you're spending more for a same-quality brand, then you might be missing the point.

This illusion is starting to crumble. It probably won't fully go away, but people are deconstructing what "name brand" means in the first place. This is incredibly interesting, and a sign of things to come, especially in ecommerce.

The Future of Manufacturing and Branding

As things progress, we're going to see more and more "same quality" products that will rival top brands.

Amazon recently started launching more of their own "branded" products that just slap on the Amazon label to a high-quality no-brand (previously, at least) product. This is making huge changes for all sorts of industries, especially in fitness and tech.

This trend is only going to get stronger. If you sell a fairly benign product and make money from your brand value, you'll still have many options for huge profits - but you'll want to make sure you pick the right product.

Generic products like "lase mouse" or "keyboard" are going to run into problems. Specific products like "gaming mouse" and "programmer keyboard" will likely be more promising, but we'll see how it plays out.

This article is going to be a little weird because it will reflect a very, very different mindset than one which is extremely common. Writing this article was weird for me as well, because it's difficult for me to sometimes understand other paradigms - and financial decisions is an area where I generally operate in my own little world.

For example, I delayed marriage and children for financial reasons. I didn't buy a new car until I had enough to literally retire. Right now, I'm reading the same books that I hope my financial planners had to read to become financial planners, because I want to know about every aspect of my financial situation and future.

To read more about my thoughts on careers and developing strategically sound income streams, keep researching this website.

No, I've Never Had a Job

I've never had a full-time job. I've had some freelance relationships as a writer, copywriter, and funnel builder for some financial companies. But I've never actually had a salary or anything along those lines.

It just never materialized. I started learning marketable skills while in high school. In fact, I started my business while in high school. I was doing consulting during my very brief moment at college before I dropped out to work on growing my business.

Yes, I'm a Millionaire

I mention this a lot for a few reasons. First, I don't care to be polite. It's not polite to bring it up a lot. But it's relevant, so I'll do it anyway. Second, as I just said, it's relevant. I'll talk more about this below, but suffice it to say

  • Your boss is fundamentally irrational. One of the fundamental problems with career development, financial advice, and any kind of wealth planning is this: people are nuts. They're almost always incompetent at almost everything they do. Bosses are no different. Relying on your boss to not randomly try to screw you over is something I seriously don't want to deal with.
  • Jobs rarely provide much transparency. Chances are, the business you work for - especially if it's a small or medium-sized business - is just one slip up away from collapse. This has massive impacts on the employees that most never realize. Your entire resume could be shifted at the drop of a hat - and you won't know until after the fact.
  • Careers aren't always as easy to shift as you'd think. Unless you're very adept at shifting directions at the drop of a hat, a career change can be exceedingly difficult. The more unique your skills are, the more this becomes a question of extremes. You can either easily switch or could have trouble for years. The damage can be severe - a year or two of unemployment can severely damage your bargaining power literally for a decade or more. This depends on the person, of course, but it's a massive variable that I never wanted to deal with.
  • Finding good jobs is going to get even harder. As technology progresses, "good jobs" will be few and far between. Those that exist will often be wonderful - but the overall percentage of the population that will have one will likely become more consolidated. This means that not only should you focus on saving as much as possible, but you should also make career decisions with this in mind.
  • If you can "job" it, you can often "business" it. If your job is critical to a business, then nine times out of ten you can turn it into a business. Copywriting? Programming?  Graphics design? Janitor? Accountant? Mechanic? The list goes on.
  • Jobs don't make much money, frankly. Even if you're the top-performing person at your job, the money is almost never going to be that great. If your goal is to generate substantial wealth - like a million per year - there's almost no chance you'll do that with a job.

 

Shaun Connell has built multiple 7-figure earning businesses, including one with a successful multi-million dollar exit. He's obsessed with wealth building, investing, entrepreneurship, and Stoic philosophy. You can learn more about Shaun by checking out his essays or project list.